Itsa small world afterall

My prison love ministry (dating someone in prison) is going well.  I love him.  He still won't allow me to visit but now I know.   It is because his family is usually there and WE are not ready to make this a family affair.  Sound reasonable to me.  I just wish he hada been straight about that from the gate instead of me playing the guess game with him.  I mean, that guessing game drove me insane.  Almost cost us the whole relationship.  I was throwing mini tantrums left and right back to back.  He started calling me Dr. Jeckle Mr. Hyde.  I can understand that! haha

Anyways, the most recent drama is that we found out that I used to date (and slept with) his cousin about a year ago.  Itsa small small world isnt it?  So, I went out to a party on Saturday night and I guess who I bumped into? Your right, I bumped into the cousin who had the nerves to try to heme me up.  He said that I broke his heart for the second time and now I am with his boy.  He said that he doesn't know what he did to cause me to leave him alone but whatever it was it was not intentional.  I felt like I was in a awkward situation.  I tried to apologize, make amends, and renew our friendship.  He seemed to me to still have feelings for me and he told me all this even though my new boo is his cousin/homeboy.  I was flattered, surprisingly.  The only reason I left him alone is because he did not have time for me.  I liked him too.  So, I was torn about whether or not I would tell my new boo about his cousin.  I did not want to keep any secrets but I also did not want him to hear it from someone else.  I know I don't want to come between family.  What should I have done?  I told my new boo about what happened and I did not leave out a thing.  I told him that we hugged and that I tried to give him my phone number but he didn't write it down.